My response to the New Yorker article, "Can we get kids off smartphones?" by Jessica winter4/23/2024 “The effect of these tools, Haidt writes, was to attach kids to “‘a firehose of social comparison’” that pummelled their self-esteem at a critical moment of cognitive and psychological development.” I agree with this article because although I, like many other people, love my phone, I definitely think my life would be better without it. The article specifically mentioned how social media has changed our perception of the world and increased mental health issues in teens, which is specifically what I agree with. I don’t think that it is possible to get rid of phones as a whole, but I definitely think some things about them could be changed.
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By Maeve Parker Travel is a part of our everyday lives. Whether you are walking your dogs, driving to the grocery store, or even traveling across the world, it affects us all. As you engage in each of these tasks, you are allowing time for your mind to process things going on in your daily life. Simply getting away from your everyday life for just a moment can instantly decrease stress and improve your mood. As traveling connects us to the world around us, I believe that it can have a very positive impact on our mental health. According to WebMD, travel relieves stress, enhances creativity and boosts overall happiness. With these powerful benefits, travel can be a tool to help a person through a hard time. I know very well that some days, getting out of bed seems impossible, but the benefits of getting out of bed and getting a simple breath of fresh air can be transformative and positively impact the rest of my day. Many people at North Cross engage in some form of traveling. When asked about how traveling affects her mental health, student Fiona Parnell ‘26 has a unique outlook on the topic. For as long as she can remember Fiona has gone to Ireland to visit her family. Her sister, Maeve Parnell ‘23 currently attends college at Trinity College in Dublin, Ireland. “It is where I get my happiness from,” she said. “Ireland is my home. It is where I feel like I belong. It has helped me improve my confidence as it gives me a connection to my culture.” In Fiona’s instance, traveling improves her mental health because it is a way she can “destress from the rest of the world” and opens her to new connections with people in another country. Another student with a one of a kind experience with travel is Ameer Albishah ‘26. Ameer has been to countries in Europe and the Middle East, and so naturally travel has become a huge and important part of his life. “It helps me improve my mental health a lot because it’s so relaxing and calming,” he said. His favorite part of traveling is getting to visit his family in Jordan every summer. “I visit my grandparents, uncles, aunts, and my best friends in Jordan,” he said. “It’s so much fun and I always look forward to it” Travel is very meaningful to Ameer. “Traveling is a big part [of] improving my mental health,” he said. Travel has improved my life in similar ways to Ameer and Fiona. I was born in Brisbane, Australia, however my family moved back to the United States when I was still very young, so I don’t remember my experience very much. However, due to being born in such a unique place, it has led me to become very interested and curious in the world around me. I have always wondered what Brisbane was like, and the dream of going back has motivated me to become interested in traveling in general. One of my favorite activities is walking my dogs on the Fern Park trail near my house, and although it seems like a simple thing to do, it means much more to me. It makes me feel connected to my neighborhood and Roanoke, while also allowing me to destress from the rest of the world just like Fiona and Ameer. Our lives can sometimes feel like they are in non-stop motion and there is no time in between to focus on yourself. However, by focusing on this motion, you can learn different ways to use it to help improve your overall well-being. NCS IN ICELAND In June of 2023, I traveled with North Cross students all over Iceland. It was a trip I will never forget. When I heard the flight attendant announcing our arrival, I looked out the window and saw nothing but a big clearing of rocks for miles and far in the distance a tiny little airport. My first thought was: Are we on the moon? I was so shocked about how Iceland looked, especially because it looked so different from any picture I had seen. Once we had made it off of the plane, we found our guide for the next week and stepped on the big tour bus for the first time of our trip. Little did we know, we would become very fond of that tour bus because we would be spending a lot of time on it. And I mean a LOT of time. Our entire group was exhausted, but it was only 6:30 am in Iceland, so we still had a long day ahead of us. The first day was so much fun! Iceland was not at all what I had expected, but in the best way possible. I had expected to see only beautiful grass and mountains, but instead I saw a different landscape anywhere I turned. There was always something to look at, which is definitely the reason it makes Iceland so unique. I very soon realized a couple of things about Iceland: Everything is spread out, there are not many people, everyone is so nice, it is so clean, and almost everywhere you look there is either a green scooter or construction. Iceland leads the world in eco-friendly policies, everything was organized and clean, which made the country as a whole so beautiful. One of the things that made this trip so special was the people we met along the way. The third day into the trip we made it to our last hotel and we found out that we were not the only school group visiting. The hotel we were in had a huge basement with a game room, so our group decided it would be fun to check it out. When we got there we found around 50 kids that were our age from the UK. Over the next couple of nights, everyday after touring Iceland, we went to the game room and met up with our new friends from the UK. Despite this being a highlight, my favorite part of the trip would definitely have to be the glacier hike. For the glacier hike, we all wore special shoes with spikes, helmets and harnesses. The glacier was huge and so pretty, and once we got to the top, we all got to drink some glacier water that was flowing down the glacier. It was definitely the best water I’ve ever had. Finally, on the last day of the trip we got to go to the Blue Lagoon. I was unsure if I would like it or not because some people were saying that it was really gross due to having thousands of visitors everyday. Nonetheless, we all got in and I wasn’t surprised to see that the lagoon, like everything else in Iceland, was beautiful and clean. For Kaylee Timonet, school was always a place for her to thrive and be a leader especially as the Student Body President of her class, but all that was taken away from her with a simple dance.
On September 30th, while at a party with her mom, Kaylee and her friends were dancing when a DJ filmed them and the video was eventually posted online. Although this video was taken outside of school, and nothing in it associated the school she attended, Kaylee’s principal, Jason St. Pierre took it upon himself to find the video and talk to Kaylee about it. Kaylee was called into his office the following week, and was immediately punished and scrutinized for of her dance because St. Pierre claimed that the dance was “not living in God’s ideals” thus forcing his religion upon the 17-year old. He took away a scholarship Kaylee had worked incredibly hard to achieve, along with taking away her preposition as president. Punishments should never be given for no reason, but unfortunately sometimes they are. For Kaylee Timonet this was the case, and the punishment she received was heightened to an unbelievable extent due to her just enjoying life and having fun. Following receiving this devastating information which could possibly hinder her future, Kaylee used Tik Tok to share her story with the world. Her story immediately received lots of attention spreading it across various new outlets around the country. In response to the outrage among teenagers all over the US, St. Pierre was asked to back down from his position as principal and apologize to Kaylee and her mother for the entire situation. Kaylee’s story has shown teenagers all over the country that there will always be a support system there for them with the help of social media. The extent at which people have come together to back Kaylee has been incredible to see and it shows us the advocacy of the new generation. This entire story makes me realize how powerful our generation is, but it also makes me appreciate the freedom and support from adults that we have at our school. |
Maeve ParkerThe picture to the left is me with my friend Lucy Paige Ellett ‘ 26 on our last day in Iceland. One of my favorite parts about summer is traveling to cool places. This summer I went to Iceland with our school in June. The entire trip was one of the highlights of my summer because Iceland was like nowhere I’ve been before. I was born in Brisbane, Australia, and by the time I was 4 years old I had lived in four different places around the world. Eventually my family and I found our way to Roanoke, Virginia and we’ve now lived here for almost 11 years. I love Roanoke because one of my favorite activities is hiking, which is perfect because we are surrounded by mountains. Photo by Maeve Parker Archives
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